Current mood: confused
Felt like posting this tonight!!
Happy Thanksgiving kids ![]()
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Falling in love is the ultimate act of revolution of resistance to today’s tedious, socially restrictive, culturally constrictive, patently ridiculous world.
Love transforms the world. Where the lover formerly felt boredom, he now feels passion. Where she was once complacent, she now is excited and compelled to self-asserting action. The world which once seemed empty and tiresome becomes filled with meaning, filled with risk and rewards, with majesty and danger!
Love makes it possible for individuals to connect with others in a meaningful way. It impels them to leave their shells and risk being honest and spontaneous together, to come to know each other in profound ways.
But, despite the stereotyped images used in the media to sell toothpaste and honeymoon suites, genuine passionate love is discouraged in our culture. Being “carried away by our emotions” is frowned upon; instead we are raised to always be on our guard, lest our hearts lead us astray. Rather than being encouraged to have the courage to face the consequences of risks taken in pursuit of our hearts’ desires, we are counseled not to take risks at all, to be “responsible.”
And love itself is regulated.
Men must not fall in love with other men, nor women with other women, nor individuals from different ethnic backgrounds with each other, or else the usual bigots who form the front-line offensive in the assault of modern western culture upon the individual will step in. Men and women who have entered into a legal/religious contract are not to fall in love with anyone else, even if they no longer feel any passion for their marital partners.
This regulated commercial love is nothing like the burning fire that consumes the genuine lover. Restrictions, expectations and regulations smother true love; for love is a wildflower that can never grow within the confines prepared for it, but only appears where it is least expected.
We must fight against these cultural restraints that would cripple and smother our desires. For it is love that gives meaning to life, desire that make it possible for us to make sense of our existence and find purpose in our lives. Without these, there is no way for us to determine how to live our lives, except to submit to some authority, some god, master or doctrine that will tell us what to do and how to do it without ever giving us the satisfaction that self-determination does.
So fall in love today, with men, with women,with music, with ambition, with yourself and most importantly…with LIFE!
Shamelessly stolen from Days Of War Nights Of Love =)
